Well, still too young to get married but stumbled upon this article and think it is worth a read:
http://elitedaily.com/women/20-qualities-the-person-youre-going-to-marry-should-have/
Sunday, May 18
Monday, May 5
Wise
In life, there are often decisions we have to make. How do we consider it wise or not wise? Should i take a nap, update my blog or study now? Should i attend the party or stay in for revision? This topic or that topic for FYP topic? Too often we are influenced by advises from different people : some tell you A is better and some tell you B is the best while others tell you both A and B are no good, choose C. There is no strict rule of what to follow, but to follow your heart.
Making a wise decision, to me, is to follow your heart while not hurting others. Recently, I have a serious problem when making decisions. Directionless. Doubts. Indecisive. Which should i choose? Which is better? etc... Sometimes i really hate myself for that. Even a simple decision, i would need to acquire so many different opinions from my friends or family before deciding.
Decisions which are related to my academics are the toughest for me. Well, yeah, they are not what major life decisions but i need to GRADUATE on time!! I desperately need to cuz i could not afford to fail (money-wise or time-wise). I know I have to be disciplined and work real hard to achieve that but sometimes following my heart, i could just play all day long. I've always been a slow student and yet studying progress gets worse nowadays as internet is a great source of distraction. Texting 24/7 and scrolling through facebook instagram have really become my (very bad) habit. Its stupid for people at age 21 to follow rules such as: only 2 hours internet per day or study at least 7 hours a day. However, i really need to limit myself and set some targets as due dates and final exams are getting closer and closer already.
Its week 9 of the final year first semester, and this post is sort of a reminder to myself cuz i need my discipline back: EE LING, PLEASE PLEASE WORK HARD.
Making a wise decision, to me, is to follow your heart while not hurting others. Recently, I have a serious problem when making decisions. Directionless. Doubts. Indecisive. Which should i choose? Which is better? etc... Sometimes i really hate myself for that. Even a simple decision, i would need to acquire so many different opinions from my friends or family before deciding.
Decisions which are related to my academics are the toughest for me. Well, yeah, they are not what major life decisions but i need to GRADUATE on time!! I desperately need to cuz i could not afford to fail (money-wise or time-wise). I know I have to be disciplined and work real hard to achieve that but sometimes following my heart, i could just play all day long. I've always been a slow student and yet studying progress gets worse nowadays as internet is a great source of distraction. Texting 24/7 and scrolling through facebook instagram have really become my (very bad) habit. Its stupid for people at age 21 to follow rules such as: only 2 hours internet per day or study at least 7 hours a day. However, i really need to limit myself and set some targets as due dates and final exams are getting closer and closer already.
Its week 9 of the final year first semester, and this post is sort of a reminder to myself cuz i need my discipline back: EE LING, PLEASE PLEASE WORK HARD.
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