In relationships, people often change themselves in order to suit a group of friends/ people or for others to like them better. They change their interests or liking, hide some truths of themselves that people may not like, and make themselves do what others would like them to do. In fact, everyone has to know that they have their very own unique style and it will feel much greater when someone appreciates you just the way you are. Do not be afraid of not having friends or people around you. Be yourself and the right people will just come by.
I often come across articles saying "love yourself". I think the term brings a deeper level meaning than just to love yourself. When you love yourself, you appreciate yourself as who you are and it will not be easy to change yourself just to suit other people. When you love yourself, you listen to yourself, know what you are capable and incapable of, what you like and what you don't. But beware, this does not mean that one should "appreciate" their negative behaviors such as being stubborn and stay with those negative behaviors.
All in all, be true to yourself, be true to life, and appreciate your unique self. Also, from time to time, take in feedback from people around you, listen to yourself, and always strive to be a better person.
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